we'll miss you...

When it comes to Noah, I am always looking forward. I have a hard time staying still and accepting anything just the way it is. I am always trying to get him a teacher that has patience and kindness and likes working with all sorts of children. I meet with the principal to be sure that the appropriate support system is in place for Noah and others like him. I try to get him therapies with therapists that don't just see it as a job, but an opportunity to make a difference. My mind is constantly thinking of things I can do for both of my children, specifically Noah (my Reese tells me what to do after all!). And sometimes, I'm lucky. Sometimes I come across a teacher that was made to teach. Or a coach that that has the patience of a saint. Or a therapist that not only "gets it" but truly adores my son.

About three years ago we were introduced to another Occupational Therapist named Cheri. I am not so proud to say that I didn't give her much of a chance at first. I do that with most every new therapist. I know, it's not the right thing to do. Noah has been to so many therapists and I am not one to give them the benefit of the doubt. Experience has proven that many clock-in and do their job and leave. Some are nicer than others, but as the months go by I would always ask myself about Noah's questionable progress with that therapist. But Cheri proved me wrong. She was different. It took a few weeks for me to see it. But I was not alone--Noah sensed it and loved going to see Ms. Cheri. She was fun and connected with him in a way I hadn't ever seen before. And his progress with her was ongoing, consistent and impressive. It was as though, again, the stars had aligned for Noah.

Three years later I am so, so sad to say that Ms. Cheri is leaving. Her husband's job has taken him to South Florida. I am happy for her as she will be surrounded by family there. But we are so saddened by the news. If only I could express to Ms. Cheri what she has meant to us. Especially to Noah. She has been so much more than an OT. She has been a friend to Noah and to me. Someone to offer real, truthful advice when I needed it most. She always had Noah's best intrests at heart. There are so few people in his life like this. And I feel as though I have lost another angel.

At least I know that we were so, so blessed to have her for three very important years in Noah's life. And no matter where she goes she will continue to help and inspire other children. They should feel fortunate if she leaves only a fraction of the imprint she has left on our hearts.